Month: November 2022

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    The Law of Attraction

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    The Law of Attraction

    A Live Your Best Life mini-lesson on The Law of Attraction

    If you’ve logged onto social media, turned on the tv, or even listened to a song recently, you’re familiar with the phrase “Good vibes only.” To some, it’s just a catchy saying to stick on the side of a mug, but to others, it’s a way of life based on the Law of Attraction. One of the 12 Universal Laws, the Law of Attraction a key ingredient to the process of manifestation. It is one of the most popular of the Universal laws and arguably, the most understood. In order to get the most of this magical and life-changing principle, there are a few things you must know.

     

    First things first, what exactly is the Law of Attraction? Simply put, it is the belief that like attracts like and that thoughts are energy that creates a vibrational frequency. Everything around us vibrates and consists of energy and this law believes that your reality is a reflection of the energy you are putting into the world.  Even when you aren’t aware, you are projecting what you want to the Universe and it is constantly listening, sending it to you.


    Sounds like magic, right?

    We’re sure you’re asking yourself, “If this works, then why isn’t everyone using it?” The answer is everyone is using it, most just don’t realize it. Whether you believe in the Universe or manifesting doesn’t matter. This is a Universal Law, which means it affects us all and when used correctly, you can co-create with the Universe to live out your best life. It’s important to remember that the Universe wants to give you everything you desire. You were born to live an authentic life full of abundance and blessings. However, thanks to living the human experience, as we grow and navigate the world, our minds are reinforced with beliefs and fears that influence our minds. This means that while we can think we are asking for a million dollars and our soulmate, our subconscious mind is sending out messages of lack and unworthiness.

     

    This means that in order to create the life of your dreams, you have to do a little more than sitting on your couch repeating “I’m a millionaire” over and over. Even though we are discussing mindset, taking aligned action is the greatest driver of manifestation and utilizing the Law of Attraction. If you want a million dollars, first ask yourself why you want it (financial freedom, to take care of loved ones, to live peacefully) and then begin to take the steps to get there. Iconic Tip: stepping through fear is the greatest attractor and by doing what scares you, you are amplifying your manifestation to the Universe.Now that we’re clear on all of that, it’s time to explore the nine different Enneagram types. However, before we do, it’s important to keep in mind that no one type is superior to another; each type has its own advantages and disadvantages. Also, these nine personality types are universal and can be applied no matter your gender or ethnicity. Remember this is all about understanding and growth, so while your personality type won’t change, you may not relate to the descriptions forever.

    Something you will often hear surrounding the Law of Attraction is that you must be positive all the time. The second you think negatively, bad things will come to you and you will lose your manifestation. We want to respectfully argue against this. While it’s true that if you are a constant Debbie Downer, only ever thinking about how terrible life is, there’s likely not much room for joy. What we want to encourage is being in touch with yourself and your emotions. If you start to feel negative or angry or jealous, stop and take note of not only what you’re feeling but what triggered these feelings in the first place. Start a journal and write through your emotions until you discover why you feel the way you are feeling. This often leads to discovering your limiting beliefs and allows you to replace them with positive, reaffirming beliefs.

    Look around, for better or worse, you have created the life you’re currently living. You don’t have to be the passenger in your life, you can get in the driver’s seat and take control. The Law of Attraction isn’t magic, you are. By loving yourself and believing that you are not only capable but that you deserve to live the life of your dreams, you will start actively working with the Universe to craft your reality. Raising your levels of deservingness is the ultimate act of self-care. Love yourself, Beauty, we sure do. 

    How are you using the Law of Attraction in your life? Follow us @IconicWineBeauties and tag us with all the wonderful things you’re attracting! 

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    Enneagrams 101

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    An Iconic beginner’s guide to Enneagrams 

    As we grow and evolve, making our way through this crazy, wonderful world, finding tools that assist us in self-development and understanding can be extremely beneficial. Though personality tests can have their flaws, taking the time to reflect and discover habits and traits we exude can be helpful both personally and professionally. The Enneagram personality test is one example of these popular tools.

    The Enneagram has been rapidly growing in popularity over recent years thanks largely in part to social media but was originally created in 1915 by philosopher George Gurdjieff. Based on the theory that people are born with dominant personality types that are then shaped and molded by their environment and experiences, the modern Enneagram consists of nine different personality types that help pinpoint basic fears, desires, core motivations, and virtues. The Enneagram structure believes that nobody is strictly one type, but instead a combination of all types with a certain personality trait being most dominant and therefore, most important.

    Once you find out your most dominant type, you will explore your wing which is the subtype of your Enneagram type. While it is possible to have an Enneagram without a wing, most users will feel using a wing more accurately describes their personality. So how do you discover your wing? Each point on the Enneagram has two wings. Simply put, these are the neighboring points, one number above and one number below. So if you are a type 5, your wing would either be 4 or 6, if you are a 9, your wings would either be 8 or 1. Wings are decided by “borrowing” traits from the neighboring type to create a more well-rounded blend of the two types. 

    Now that we’re clear on all of that, it’s time to explore the nine different Enneagram types. However, before we do, it’s important to keep in mind that no one type is superior to another; each type has its own advantages and disadvantages. Also, these nine personality types are universal and can be applied no matter your gender or ethnicity. Remember this is all about understanding and growth, so while your personality type won’t change, you may not relate to the descriptions forever.

     

    The 9 Enneagram Types

    Type 1 – The Reformer

    The Reformer is the rule follower who is always doing things the right way. They are organized, serious, and practical, often having a strict set of moral rules to abide by. They can be hard on themselves and those around them, but in their hearts, they just want to make the world a better place. Reformers fear being bad or corrupt and desire goodness and integrity.

    Type 2 – The Helper

    The Helper is a natural giver. This type is always there to give a helping hand and act as a support system to loved ones. They can be giving to a fault, ignoring their own needs and boundaries to please others. The Helper wants to fit in and be loved. They fear being unwanted or unneeded and desire to be loved.

    Type 3 – The Achiever

    The Achiever is success-oriented, accomplished, and driven. They are always up for a challenge and willing to go the extra mile in order to obtain their dreams. The Achiever always wants to appear capable and do whatever they can in order to avoid failure. Type 3 fears being worthless and disappointing others and desire to be valued and accepted.

    Type 4 – The Individualist

    The Individualist loves to be unique and creative. Never wanting to be considered ordinary, they strive to present their true self to the world. They are very focused on feeling their emotions and can tend to be moody and sometimes jealous. The Individualist fears not having an identity or personal significance and they desire to be meaningful and authentically themselves.

    Type 5 – The Investigator

    The Investigator loves to learn. They are always looking to learn more about the world and enjoy being by themselves. They are very private and deep thinkers. Investigators are sponges for knowledge and make great scientists, professors, and engineers. The investigator fears being useless or unskilled and desires to be capable and competent.

    Type 6 – The Loyalist

    The Loyalist needs security and seeks it in every aspect of their life. Though they can be skeptical and anxious, they are very responsible and trustworthy—often having long-lasting friendships. The Loyalist fears losing security and support and desires stability and to be secure.

    Type 7 – The Enthusiast

    The Enthusiast is spontaneous, optimistic, and full of energy. They are always seeking out new experiences and can struggle with recognizing limits and settling down. This type wants to get the most out of life and is motivated by fun and a need to be happy. The Enthusiast fears being confined or in pain and desires to be fulfilled and satisfied. 

    Type 8 – The Challenger

    The Challenger is always chasing goals, strategies, and improvement. Brave and headstrong they are leaders who know what they want. They are very protective but can become obsessed with controlling everything around them, never wanting to appear weak or vulnerable. Challengers fear being harmed or controlled by others and desire to be free and in control.

    Type 9 – The Peacemaker

     The Peacemaker is accepting and tolerant of others. They value peace and will go to great lengths in order to ensure harmony among a group. They are great at communication and encouragement but tend to let others take control to make other people happy. The Peacemaker fears being disconnected and separated from the world and desires to have peace and stability

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    Once you’ve taken a test to discover your Enneagram, it can be beneficial in examining your life and discovering ways to become the best version of yourself. By knowing yourself, you can more accurately inspect your life in order to live as your best, most authentic self. Even if you share traits with others, it’s important to remember that you’re a wonderful, Iconic individual and your path is yours and yours alone. 

    Do you know your Enneagram type? Comment below or tag us on IG @IconicWineBeauties with your types and how you use this knowledge to work for you!